So I haven’t blogged for a very long time. Is it because I’m too busy? Nope. I actually have plenty of time and great balance in my life. I work part-time so that I can take care of things at home, spend time with Rob and Jack and the rest of my family and not feel like every second of the weekends needs to be spent cleaning and doing yard work. I guess the real reason I haven’t blogged is because I’ve been too busy living my life and I forgot just how much I would like writing to be a part of that.
Yesterday my older sister and I stopped by my grandparents to visit for a bit. I know I’ve mentioned this before, but I have the coolest grandparents. The last time I blogged, I wrote about it actually. My grandpa has grown softer and more emotional over the years and there is pure joy in his face when he sees us. The conversations with them are some of my favorite. Partly because you never know what’s going to happen when my grandma opens her mouth. Yesterday, for example, we were talking about our prisons being overcrowded and how putting drug addicts there is not the answer for rehabilitation (no brainer, I know). My grandma’s solution? Drop them from a plane into the west desert. You know, quarantine them. And, maybe shoot a couple that deserve being shot. I know, it sounds terrible, but if you knew her you would understand. And then you would quickly type her famous words into your phone so that you can write about them the next day.
Anyway, the point is that once again, I’m reminded that these are the moments to cherish. There is so much tragedy and sadness in our world. People are being shot at church in the most privileged country in the world and it’s not by scary-ass terrorist groups. No, it’s because racism is alive and well. There are people in 2015 that still can’t marry the person they love (it’s 2015!). None of it makes any sense to me. I always come back to the same answer; accept people, love them and let them be who they are.
And even though the world is far too complicated and I’ll never understand why terrible things happen to people everyday, I’m holding out hope. Hope that I can make a little bit of difference in the lives of the people around me. Hope that life can be simplified and enjoyed as it should be. Hope that people can follow their dreams and find real joy. I know, I sound like a total dreamer who needs to get in touch with reality, right? Oh well. Instead of saying it’s not possible, I’m going to give the answer that my beautiful niece always gave me…. Maybe. Maybe it is possible.